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Michael Nichols – The Lost Art of Listening: How Learning to Listen Can Improve Relationships [eBook = PDF]321 pagesAmazon linkFrom Publishers WeeklyWhat is true listening and why, the author asks, has it become a near-rarity in modern life? Nichols (Family Healing) shows how to utilize this “art by which we use empathy to reach the space across us” to improve and repair relationships with spouses, lovers, relatives, children, friends and colleagues, and even how to boost one’s own “listenability.” He also explains what listening isn’t, explaining why people don’t listen and listing obstacles to listening (especially defensiveness owing to emotional overreaction). Humor, true-life examples and simple exercises make this a practical and even entertaining self-help guide, although Nichols can be a bit long-winded and preachy.From Scientific AmericanLily Tomlin once advised that we `listen with an intensity that most people save for talking.’ Michael Nichols, in The Lost Art of Listening tells us how. This is a very special book which distills years of clinical wisdom into practical advice about improving our most important relationships and, ultimately, who we are. Through the lens of the importance to us all of being heard, Dr. Nichols tells us how genuine listening can prevent broken connections and dried up relationships.