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Another little ebook I put together:If you’ve been around pickup material for any length of time, there’s no doubt that you’ll have heard about the importance of the correct “frame”.So just what does a frame mean, and why is it so important for seduction (and in many aspects of personal development)?Here’s a bit of psychology 101 that will help you to understand – it’s generally accepted that our mind perceives only a small amount of data that is captured through our senses. The outside world is a storm of images, sounds and other stimuli that the conscious mind simply can’t handle all at once; so it needs to filter the incoming information into manageable chunks.That’s pretty helpful to have a filter huh? Well, generally yes but now let’s look into how the mind decides what to ignore and what to present to you consciously.What if you filtered information so that you were only consciously aware of those external ‘things’ that agreed with your beliefs and expectations about the world, making you almost blind to anything else out there? In essence it would mean that whatever you expected to happen would happen – because you would interpret those things in the habitual way that is most comfortable, habitual and simple for your conscious mind to digest. A frame (for the purposes here)  is our general belief system through which we act and interpret information.Here’s an example – You make an approach and for whatever reason a girl tells you to “**** off”. Do you go home with your tail between your legs carrying on your negative self talk of “I’m an ugly loser” or do you think “It’s her loss, she’s obviously scared of her immense feelings of sexual attraction for me” and truly believe it.The most popular advice is to use the frame (belief system) of yourself as “the prize”. That’s fantastic, but how do you actually get yourself to believe this? Where are the step-by-step directions for developing these beliefs that come so highly recommended? Is there a way of shifting your beliefs and thoughts so that they serve you in the best way possible? I think so, and here’s how…