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How you interact with the other person determines what will happen in your relationship. You can either act in a way that restores love and forwards cooperation or you can act in a way that creates more pain and suffering. Usually, we create more pain and suffering.We have so much hurt and upset, we lose our ability to see clearly. All we can do is fight, resist, hang on or withdraw. This in turn destroys love and creates a cycle of conflict. This cycle of conflict then brings out the worst in people.To be most effective in handling your situation, this cycle of conflict needs to end. This is true whether you want to save your marriage or divorce as friends. Fortunately, it only takes one person to heal a relationship.As a former divorce attorney, Bill Ferguson gained national attention for his ability to take the conflict out of divorce. Fifteen percent of his clients never divorced, and the ones who did were able to part as friends. He has been featured on Oprah and his work has been recommended by both The Wall Street Journal and The Washington Post.