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A how to get girls guide from the year 2000.  Yes the year 2000!, six years before the Game by Neil Stratuss. Found it in my friends windows 95 computer, some of the stuff he mentions is still mentioned today.. Epic! 391 pages. Table of ContentsUpdate: 31/05/00: Links at bottom of pageI’ve added some links at the bottom of this page to some usefull websites which are worth a visit.Before you begin:Common abbreviations and acronyms – all acronyms used in the guide explained.Estonian translations – if you want to seduce some Estonian girlsGeneral rules:The 3 seconds rule – the most important rule you’ll ever learn, say bye-bye to hesitation.Look and feel your best – all the time!Be the Alpha/Dominant male – be in charge of your surroundings. Including the girlsDo my looks matter? – yes they do, but not nearly as much as you think.Nice guys vs jerks – the key difference between the two explained.Good traits to have – or develop, to be a successful player.It all comes down to satisfaction – read why you actually have the upper hand with the most beautiful of women.Women want good sex – so make sure you do her rightShould you express or contain your sexual desires? – a moot point, read why.Wanna play the dating game? – … um… let’s see now…The rules with your wingman – if you approach girls together with a friend / wingman, make sure you agree on the rules.Getting started:On confidence – and getting started with approaching girls.Experiment! – don’t think twice, don’t look back, just have fun!.Casual meetings vs pick-ups – the pros and cons.At a party – a mild alternative to the 3s rule.Just say “Hi” – then continue with one of the two tactics described in the article.Talk to girls – everywhere!How to initiate a conversation – here’s your back-up, in case your primary parashoot doesn’t open.Talking to her = echoing her – a stripped down version of Trance words and Eliciting values.Fluff talk – the essential skill of talking about nothing, and how to evolve from that.The “don’t”s of fluff talk – what to avoid.Reading body language – its like reading people’s thoughts, it’ll blow you awayMirroring – the Jedi mind tricks of body-language explained.Kinaesthetics – make touching the girls your second nature, even (and especially! if you just met them, they’ll love itApproaching and making them interested:Where to meet girls – the most popular places for a pick-up.If she seems unapproachable – then maybe everyone thinks so… and she’s all alone.General guidelines on approaching – a few pointers and examples to get you started.Demonstrate value and personality – the basic premise of seduction.The importance of a first impression – or relative unimportance, depending on whether you’re an AFC or a PUAPace and lead – and demonstrate understanding to increase rapport.Approachesl Simple approaches – examples of various conversational approaches.l The cold approach – not a good approach, unless you combine this with the GM style.l The collision approach – either let her walk by… or “bump” into herl The available chair approach – that empty chair next to a HB looks inviting…l The crappy sketch-artist approach – because women like artists right?l The dramatic approach – catch everyone’s attention… including her’sl The cellular approach – to choose any topic of discussion.l The familiar approach – act like you already know her, or fool her into thinking she knows youl Pez opener – a really “sweet” opener by Mysteryl You look stunning approach – Ross Jeffries’ classic, careful though, not intended for use with the 9s and 10sl Pacing the ongoing reality – a simple way to get instant rapport.l Should I buy her a drink? – read why you’d better avoid it.l Should I ask for her name? – so that you’d know what name to yell when you’re sleeping with your hand?l Leech off someone else’s crash and burn – anything is fair in love and warl If she is working – a waitress, a nurse, a girl at the cashier – this one is universal.l If you just have to use a pick-up line – they suck, unless you show you know they suck.l “I like…” game as an opener – you can use this one anywhere.l Mr Smooth technique – the game-show host style technique of a Japanese PUA explained step by step.l The questions game – a shortcut to sex-talk and kissing.Gimmicks – palm-readingl Use a gimmick to get going – handwriting analysis, tarot cards, palmistry – “crap” you say?l Palm-reading – why should you use it? -l Reading the lines in general – a do-it-yourself guide to becoming a gypsyl Reading the line of Fate – yes pleasel Reading her love-life – uuuhh… sounds interestingl Reading the line of Heart – good, goodl Reading the mount of Venus – oh no… where is that?!l A sample reading routine – a few examples to give you the general idea.Night-clubs and dancingl Night-clubs vs other places to meet girls – a few words of warning.l How to switch to the right mindset – set yourself apart from “death row”.l Asking for a dance – just honour the traditions. If you want to get nowhere.l About dancing – unless you have the skills of a back-up dancer, don’t waste your energy.l Slow dancing – an exception to the “don’t waste your energy rule” abovel Fast dance to slow dance – a superiour technique of transitioning to a slow-dance no matter the musicl After the dance – now that you’ve got her, don’t let her slip away.Group tacticsl If she is with a friend – or even worse, a group of friends? How do you approach?l Approaching a group of many girls – a simpler strategy for approaching groups.l How to have her leave the group – a passive strategy… but still pretty goodNeghitsl Neghits explained – Mystery shows you what gets you the attention of the most beautiful girls.l Neghits expansion pack – some additional advice on using neghits and a few examples.Eliciting valuesl Eliciting values explained – become the man of her dreams, just by talking to herl Trance words explained – say it in her own words (also relates to Patterning).l Calibrate the girl – and you can read her like an open book.l Eliciting values – introducing the questions – how to ask the questions without sounding obtrusive.l Eliciting values – the questions – so what questions should you ask?l Eliciting values – the answers – now that you know her values, it is time to talk about “yourself”l The perfect relationship – a simple value-eliciting scheme.GM stylel GM style explained – I bet you won’t believe that this actually works Well, it doesl GM style lines – completely outrageous!l GM style expansion pack – a continuation of the GM style, links to appropriate articles.Sexual talkl Talking about sex – a few words of warning.l Use sexual stories to get her horny – can you get away with it? Or, can she get away… without a wet spot in her pantsl The Ideal Guy routine – no matter her interest for you, use this to get her horny (and be around when that happens.Patterningl Patterning explained – the essence of Ross Jeffries’ Speed Seduction.l Delivering patterns – general rules – the most important aspects.l Delivering patterns – tonality – the right way to do it.Additional patterning skillsl Trance words explained – say it in her own words (also relates to Eliciting values).l Anchoring explained – the Pavlov’s reflex of seductionl Quoting and stacking realities – you can get away with anything using this (also relates to “Sexual talk”l Time distortion – how to make a girl you just met feel like you’ve been friends foreverl Bullshit fantasies – a powerful application of time distortion (relates to Time distortion).l Thought binding – an excellent article by Ross Jeffries.l Submodalities – an explanation plus an excercise in removing hesitationl Read romance novels to enrich your patterning language – the cause justifies the meansl Common misconceptions and problems with patterning – and how to overcome them.The patternsl Introducing patterns into a discussion – without sounding unnatural. Also how to approach.l Discovery Channel pattern – “the ride goes up and down and once you get off, you want to come again and again”l Stone Necklace pattern – tell her a breathless/speechless-making storyl The Trust pattern – alleviate her most common fears.l The Rose patterns – and she’ll be obsessed with you 3 patterns.l Believing the Supernatural patterns – “destinies”, “higher beings”, “chi energies”; feed her with her favourite foodl Passion to Passion pattern – shift her passion from “something” to “someone”.l Mental Screen pattern – “close eyes, imagine great feelings, open eyes, see… me?”l Peak Experience pattern – exchange peak experiences with her.l Natural Woman pattern – show her you know the secret and natural side of her.l Meeting the Perfect Man pattern – and she’ll feel what its like… in your presencel Feeling Drawn patterns – descriptions of initial attraction plus examples of using vague language. 4 patterns.l Incredible Connection patterns – the classic and its various derivatives. 12 patterns.l Falling in Love patterns – make her feel the feeling of falling in love 7 patterns.l The Dream pattern – help a girl have dreams about you.l Being Similar pattern – and she’ll feel what you feel (a growing boner?.l “Too bad we don’t… but if we could…” pattern – you can describe almost any state you want to her with this onel Find Your Desire pattern – and turn good girls into “naughty”.l Sex is Natural pattern – you’re adults, you can talk intelligently about sex… right?l “The more… the more..” pattern – a simple yet powerful application of thought binding.l Reading the Poem pattern – transition from patterning to reciting poetry.l The Eyes patterns – what better topic to talk about than her eyes. 2 patterns.l I Want You pattern – transition from patterning to kissingl At Least We Can Be Friends pattern – LJBF her into tearing your clothes off on the spotl Indifference to Attraction patterns – convert her from friend to lover 3 patterns.l Find That Girl pattern – reinstate her faith in men.l Blow Job patterns – these are supposed to make her want to… well, you figure it out 2 patterns.l Backdoor Pleasure patterns – the funniest patterns ever Read and you’ll know why 3 patterns.l The Void pattern – the contrast of feeling empty versus feeling happy and fulfilled..l The Door pattern – a pattern so evil, that even Ross Jeffries has denounced this one.l Presuppositions and other “mind-tricks” – don’t leave her any choiceLong-distance seductionl Become your own “friend” – to put in a good word with herl Patterning over the phone – sounds lucrative… but is it worth it?l Nick-name tease – isn’t a woman’s curiosity a wonderful thing?Now that she’s interested:Common signs of interest – to know you’re “in”Building a bridge AFC-style – if you can’t do anything, do it at least the AFC wayIf more than one girl is interested in you – don’t choose, you might looseReading the signs of a “committed” woman – understand her seemingly contradictory signs, and the door will be openCapitalise – there’s a girl that has started liking you quite on her own!? Now don’t let that window closeMaking a timely exit – instead on lingering on forever, leave her hungry for more.Closing – how to get a girl to give you her number and a kissAsking for a… date? – now that you have her number… what next?Proceeding instead of closing – for why would you want to “close” if things are going smooth?Our World routine – constructing a world for her in which she will feel free to make love to youInviting the girl over to your place – to “check out a book or something…”If she has second-thoughts – she wants it but can’t quite make up her mind, “help” herMy home is my love-nest – make sure you can be confident about the quality of your retreat.Networking and pivots – if you’re not quite interested anymore or she’s not quite interested yet.Handling the girls:Be busy – attract girls by being “busy”.Suggest competition – keep her on her toes.Put a price on yourself – the more you “cost”, the more value she attributes to you.Show a willingness to walk away – don’t let her take you for granted.Use her friends – by realising, that “friendship” also means “rivalry”.Judge her by her actions, not by her words – or rather, let her actions speak the words.Have and reveal secrets – provide a constant thrill for the woman.Use poetry – women are about feelings; poems are about feelings – and mixing the two gets you dynamite 12 poems.If she compliments you – make her feel good for having done thatAct like its special – and what you have can not be found anywhere else.Paying her a compliment – an AFC trap, unless you do it right.Cook for her and “date” at home – the main dish will be less expensive and the “dessert” more convenientWhen should you call a woman after having sex with her? – don’t blow it, she’ll be very sensitive and tender about this one.Romantic gifts and things to do – but use these to reward, not to bribe.http://tranceboy.fws1.com/index.html (5 of 8) [8/3/2002 9:28:33 PM]How to Lay Girls GuideManaging many relationships at once – best policy is (tailored honesty.Troubleshooting:If she asks for YOUR number instead – don’t fall for this (relates to Closing).If she still refuses to give you her number – a strategy of covert persistence.If she says “Why do you ask?” – read how to recover (relates to Patterning and Eliciting values).If she asks “Are you trying to seduce me?” – this isn’t trouble actually (she likes it, but you still need to know how to answer.”Have you ever…?” gets busted – what do you do, if she says “No” in response (relates to Patterning).Ejecting – you don’t always have to close. Know when to cut your losses.If she cancels a date – she screwed you (and not the way you hoped she would. Now what?If she doesn’t return your phone-calls/e-mails – a zero-tolerance policy.If she shows disrespect for you – you dump her, aka The Returning Fox Theory.The age difference problem – you shouldn’t anticipate it, but its good to be prepared.Nothing works with the girl – and you tried all your techniques. But there’s an ace up your sleeveIf she says “Let’s just be friends” – looks like you’re in trouble, read how to recover.Dealing with rejection – why you should never get rejected and how to cope with it, if you do.But I really want this girl! – read why this is such a self-defeating attitude.The boyfriend probleml If she says she has a boyfriend – never prompt for it, but if she says it anyway, don’t just bail yet.l Alienating the boyfriend in her mind – from “Sweep women off their feet”. Sayanora borefriends!l Boyfriend-smashing techniques – by NYC. Adios borefriends!l Boyfriend destroyer patterns – Hasta la vista borefriends! 6 patterns.Micellaneous:Fun and games – you’ll love these “The kissing bet”, “Osama”, “A-Hole + truth or dare”.Bad jokes – careful “Pants in the air”, “Telepathic watch”, “Spermogram”, “Doctor’s appointment”, “Voodoo dildo” etc.A game of Crash and Burn – guess it depends on your definition of fun But a great experience (and confidence? builder.More things to do for fun – useless, but funTop colognes – for getting the girls, of course.Miscellaneous suggestions and observations about seduction – a recap.Articles:The Iranian from hell – do your looks matter? Read this report by Maniac High and decide for yourselfEye contact experiment – David Shade finds out, how girls react to eye-contact with a stranger.The pivot theory – NYC explains the benefits of making girls your pivots.Ross comments on www.introme.com – his one-page website / personals ad full of NLP and SS.Falling in love vs being a player – in case you have any feelings of guilt.A female seducer turning straight girls into bi and lesbian – if you’re a girl reading “How to Lay Girls”, this one’s for youArticle in Rolling Stone – a tour of modern seduction literature, NLP and Speed Seduction.Article in Playboy – the Harvard-educated journalist experiences a paradigm shift.Job Interview patterns – a different perspective on NLP and patterning. 2 patterns.Field reports:The rich and famous setup – but even more accurately the “tired of female attention” setupThe effectiveness of persistence with a smile – true seduction (choose and seduce, not a numbers game or easy girls.Svengali’s street pick-up – a classic street pick-up using humour, romance, sex-talk and kino with confidence.http://tranceboy.fws1.com/index.html (6 of 8) [8/3/2002 9:28:33 PM]How to Lay Girls GuideSvengali’s friend’s street pick-up – a “neg” of sorts gets the ball rollingThe original Mr Smooth posts – Maniac High describes the technique of a Japanese PUA.NightShadow’s IRC seduction – an example of an image to create good feelings.David Shade’s online seduction – this guy is really good A log of him and a married woman.David Shade’s real-life seduction – and he’s not just a computer geek cowering behind his keyboard Read and gaspManiac High’s report, NYC’s comments – important points being discussed.The Orgasmotron – Alex