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Myth of Confidence – Failing your way to the TOPWhat you have been told and sold that NEVER ever worked.Be super strong. Pump yourself up. Presenter who got up and 5 am to pump himself up to present at 9 amMake other seem small…. See them in their underwear. Reinforces you insecurityThink positive thoughts… Recent study on thinking positive actually sabotaging youPrepare prepare prepare… Just repeats the underlying feeling that you are not good enough.Focus on your strengths- make them your crutchWhy are you not confident?Brain structure: Reactive responses trigger the “ I am going to die” survival reaction. This triggers the flight response we all have. This is why trying to force yourself does not work. Force generates stress and sucks the adaptability out of your brain.Looking into the black pit of the unknownYou don’t know how to fail and what to do next. You get to the end of the road of your experience and then the world drops off into the emptiness on nothingness. You have no map on where to go from there but…. you know exactly where your comfort zone is so you run back to it.Confidence is the the result of experiencing success AND failure. You MUST know how to fail AND how to succeed.Fail Early And RepeatedlyMasters Strategy of Failure1 Own it2 What you did right3 What went wrong4 What would work better5 Adjust6 Take action7 RepeatWhat do you do when you do well1 Take credit it was not an accident2 What you did right3 What you could improve4 Who could help you5 What would you not do6 What is the next step or next level skill7 Repeat