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Note: I couldn’t find a pdf version of this book so I purchased one made forthe kindle and had to convert it to pdf. Adobe reader didn’t detect all of theletters properly so if you copy and paste them they may not all display.This book was recomended to me by Smacebr, it is about authenticity, and leading others through servitude,  it’s about pushing people to gentlyachieve they’re needs which in-return builds trust and a eagerness to follow youthrough they’re own will rather then any forceful cohesion.If you read this book a long with how to win friends and influence peopleyou will develop a lot of credibility among your co-workers, peers,family and social circle which means that they will authenticallyrespect you.I also included the notes I took, I didn’t get a chanceto finish them all the way because I was burdened bymy new job but it’s worth for you to read thewhole book yourself anyway.Some of my notes:”Forceful cohesion’ = Power:  The ability to force or coerce someone to do your will, even if they would choose not to, because of your position or your might.Do it or I’ll fire you,Do it or we’ll bomb youDo it or I’ll beat you upDo it or I’ll ground you for two weeksDo it or else!The problem with power is that people can be placed into it. Power can be bought and sold, given and taken away.People can be in positions of power because they’resome ones brother-in-law, some ones buddy or because they’ve inherited money or powerIn the end you can get a few seasons out of power but over time relationships will deteriorate and so will your influence.The Solution is – Authority.’From Amazon:”In this absorbing tale, you watch the timeless principles of servant leadership unfold through the story of John Daily, a businessman whose outwardly successful life is spiraling out of control. He is failing miserably in each of his leadership roles as boss, husband, father, and coach. To get his life back on track, he reluctantly attends a weeklong leadership retreat at a remote Benedictine monastery.To John’s surprise, the monk leading the seminar is a former business executive and Wall Street legend. Taking John under his wing, the monk guides him to a realization that is simple yet profound: The true foundation of leadership is not power, but authority, which is built upon relationships, love, service, and sacrifice.Along with John, you will learn that the principles in this book are neither new nor complex. They don’t demand special talents; they are simply based on strengthening the bonds of respect, responsibility, and caring with the people around you. Perhaps this is why The Servant has touched readers from all walks of life?because its message can be applied by anyone, anywhere? at home or at work. If you are tired of books that lecture instead of teach; if you are searching for ways to improve your leadership skills; if you want to understand the timeless virtues that lead to lasting and meaningful success, then this book is one you cannot afford to miss.”- Amazon http://www.amazon.com/Servant-Simple-Story-Essence-Leadershi…