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Is your fear of rejection holding you back from taking massive action? Do you resist asking for what you want for fear of getting a NO? Do you allow the opinions of others to define your self-worth?Do you want to take action without the fear of failing?Now, you can become Rejection Free and break your barriers of fear and self-doubt.I know rejection hurts. We take it personally when people fail to give us what we desire the most. But getting rejected is a state of mind. It has power over you if you let it in by believing the worst.Rejection Free teaches you to free yourself from the feelings of shame and the fear of loss. By taking action in the face of fear, you release yourself from an emotional rollercoaster and learn to live your life with greater confidence.In Rejection Free, you will learn how to …ask for what you want without the fear of hearing NO.stop trying to please the wrong people and pay attention to the right ones.realize that rejection isn’t all about you (and how inspiring this is!).put an end to the trap of predictability and the ways it hurts your chances for success.overcome your self-doubt and become great at asking for what you want the most.supercharge your confidence and take charge of your life.desensitize yourself to rejection so  you can handle anything that comes your way!You Can Throw Away the Lies.Rejection is full of lies we believe about ourselves. One of the first steps to recovery and creating a rejection-free lifestyle is breaking away from these lies by becoming totally honest with ourselves. Aligning our thoughts and ideals with the reality of the situation makes less resistance for ourselves. The lies are what keep you trapped and continue the pattern of living in “rejection hell.”Rejection Free Is a Roadmap to FreedomWhen you avoid being rejected, you eliminate all possibilities of losing, looking bad, or failing completely. You play it safe. You look for the non-fail, safe methods that are guaranteed to reduce your failure rate. By not risking, you risk more. By hiding, you stay afraid.Learn to Ask For AnythingThere is a price to pay for not asking. By trading in your pride and fear of embarrassment, you could be giving up large sums of money (asking for a raise), your freedom (asking for time off), and the opportunity to thrive instead of survive.Why do you have to ASK FOR IT?if you don’t ask that person out on a date, someone else will;if you don’t ask for more money in your work, you’ll have less money;if you don’t ask for support, you end up doing it alone;if you don’t ask how it’s done, you’ll end up doing it the wrong wayDesensitize Your FearDoing the things that scares you numbs your fear of rejection. By taking action and breaking out of your fearful comfort zone, you condition your mind and senses to move forward and break all mental obstacles holding you back. What could you do with your life if nothing was stopping you?In Rejection Free you learn to choose the life you want and explode your massive potential by asking for anything you want and overcoming the obstacles holding you back!Editorial ReviewsReview”If you feel that your life is tied down by an unnecessary anchor of rejection, I believe this book would be very helpful. It’s very real, written from the heart, and comes with many helpful tips to removing rejection and becoming the confidence person you know you are capable of becoming.” –B. Watson, Bestselling author of Relationship Rehab”I purchased a copy for myself. Read some. Purchased a copy for my youngest child. Read some. Purchased a copy for my eldest. Still reading. That’s all I’m going to say about it. Get a copy for yourself as well as for your nearest and dearest.” –Amazon Customer”Choose yourself first. Everyone would agree it’s important but how many of us actually put that into practice? Scott Allan addresses all the common issues and important topics such as rejection isn’t about you! Wild right? Our reactions to rejection and how they can mold our life, asking for things and being specific, being grateful and patient. He shows you how to put yourself out there and confront your fears, whatever they are! There was just so much great info in this book!” –H Farrelly, Amazon Customer”Well-written, practical, acknowledging and validating the pain of rejection and yet being very pragmatic about it and the need to ‘get-over-it-and-move-on’. Scott doesn’t stop at telling us it’s important to get over it, but also shows how to do it – how to extract lessons for future growth and … grow.” –Amazon Customer J”We all deal with rejection. It’s a fact of life. Whether we missed out on love as a child, got bullied in school or by our siblings, got fired from a job, or suffered from relationship failure – it’s all rejection and we have all been hurt. The important thing to realize as an adult – is to understand how this is keeping you from getting what you really want out of life. What can you do about it? The author delves into practical steps to pull yourself out of the self pity zone, or the fear zone and started working towards getting what you want and what you need.” –MJ Shivers”I’ve been trying to get up the courage to ask for a shorter work week. I read Rejection Free and KNOW I now have all the tools to make that happen. The author brilliantly walks us through our own internal conversation and how we can replace it with new conversation and take real action to make powerful changes in our life.” –Susana, Amazon Customer”Scott goes through the vitalility of stepping out of rejection and into freedom. He gives you the top lies that we are led to believe and then the truth that sets us free. He shares stories that will help you and encourage you to walk through to the other side of this journey. Not only is it full of great content, it is a quick read.” –Amazon Customer”Scott Allan has put together an amazing resource for anyone truly wanting to be free of rejection. He outlines the common lies that we all believe and delivers the antidote with a punch of truth. So many creatives that I have met believe the lie: Rejection is a sign I should give up.” –MammaG”Rejection Free provides the reader with successful techniques to release insecurities and take charge of your life. This book takes the power out of fear and places it in the hands of the reader. I highly recommend Rejection Free to anyone who is looking to overcome what is holding you back and turn the tables on rejection.” –Melissa Weaver, Author of Reconstruction: Defying Cancer and Building a More Purposeful Life”I sat and read this book in one sitting. I couldn’t put it down . It seemed that every page related in some way to experiences in my own life and how rejection has been a part of something I have lived with. Thankfully, this is something I have been able to over come, most days, but it still rears its ugly head and I have to fight it sometimes.” –David Mckay”I have always in the back of my mind feared rejection, which is a problem when you want to get sales. I found this book not only affordable, but also useful with insights on being confident.” –eBook Reader”One of the reasons that Scott’s work has always resonated with me is that he knows what he’s talking about from personal experience. His writing style, is such that I feel like I’m talking to a friend, one on one, and this is no exception. Scott delves into the reasons why we feel rejection, and offers many practical solutions on how to overcome them. Great for business or sales folks, but even better for everyone else in overcoming our fears of rejection!” –Matt Landry, Amazon Author”I often approach books in this category thinking that they won’t really be able to help me. This book has helped me a great deal. In Rejection Free Scott Alan offers a much needed reminder that the fear of rejection comes in many forms and holds us back from living our lives to the fullest. This book is filled with application based principles, wisdom and guidance, nudging us through the barriers we didn’t even know we had.” –Erin E Pearson, Amazon Customer”I am in a field where being rejected is common. I used to take it a bit personally. Now I embrace it! Really, this book has done wonders for my confidence and willingness to get out there.”–Naturebug, Amazon Customer”Part of the strategy here is to just start asking for what you want, and like sales, if you do it often enough, eventually you will succeed. Again, that’s true, but unless you want an awful lot of things, you will quickly run out of stuff to ask for and having a trivial request turned down is not the same as being denied something you really want.” –Coronet Blue, Amazon CustomerFrom the AuthorWhy did I write this book?The Fear of Rejection is the #1 obstacle for people when it comes to gaining control of their lives. We fear taking action because there is always the risk of failure. Or, you take that chance and get shot down. When was the last time you asked for something you really wanted? For years I didn’t. I didn’t want to “bother” anyone with my needy little wants or sound like I was whining for my piece of the pie.Meanwhile I would see others boldly go for what they not only wanted but believe they deserved. When you believe that you are “less-than” it affects everything. You give in and you give up. Believing that you’ll be rejected no matter what turns into your default passive state.But we can change all of this. If the fear of rejection is holding you back, it isn’t a permanent condition, I promise you. I once thought it was. It can be beaten and then, you’ll learn to embrace it not as a negative force but your greatest teacher.You can turn rejection into your greatest asset.File Size: 3377 KBPrint Length: 162 pagesPublisher: Oblictus Publishing (July 3, 2016)http://www.amazon.com/Rejection-Free-Choose-Yourself-Confide…