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Please keep this in elib.tech. Thanks.ROBERT BLY – Iron John: A Book About Menhttp://www.amazon.com/Iron-John-Book-About-Men/dp/0201570424 (1990 Publication Date)     Today’s sensitized male may be in touch with his “feminine” side, but, writes poet Bly, this “soft male” possesses little vitality and is hobbled by grief and anguish. To achieve real masculinity, Bly argues, men must cultivate a fierce tenderness to be found neither in the macho/John Wayne model nor in the “interior feminine.” Taking as his starting point the Grimm fairy tale “Iron John,” the author sets forth an eight-stage initiatory path whose steps include remembering one’s psychic wounds, communion with a mentor or “inner King,” becoming a lover, reviving one’s inner warriors and receiving a “second heart.”     Bly avoids cant as he ransacks Jung, Freud and Reich; referents include Greek, Egyptian and Celtic myths, the Parsifal legend, Blake and Amerindian ritual. A wise and healing book full of fresh insights, Bly’s odyssey will help men grapple with identity, fatherhood, relationships and such crises as addiction and divorce.