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***************************************************************Marsha Linehan Mega DBT Training Group BuySharing it outside is absolutely forbidden ***************************************************************16 Stop Emotionally Manipulative Relationships: Empower Caretakers to Break Free From Borderlines & Narcissists4 DVDs, 5 hours, 53 mins with electronic manual & instructions.MARGALIS FJELSTAD, PH.D., LMFT$169.99Description:    Help clients extricate themselves from emotionally manipulative relationships    Move clients from other-focused to self-focused    Stop caretakers’ self-sabotage    Challenge self-defeating behaviors, reduce anxiety and teach assertive behaviors Narcissists and borderlines create emotional havoc in families, but they rarely come into therapy or stay in therapy to do the work that is needed. Emotional caretakers are the clients who come into therapy desperately seeking answers to the dysfunction, confusion and hurt in these families. They are the victims who are attacked, manipulated and controlled by the borderline or narcissist. Emotional Caretakers are often described as self-sacrificing, self-defeating, enablers, doormats, virtuous masochists and pathological altruists. They are highly vulnerable to being drawn into taking care of the needs of the borderline or narcissist, because their loyalty, endurance, need to please, intense guilt, and ability to placate and take on all blame and responsibility help these relationships function. Learn how to effectively motivate and create change in clients who typically feel defeated, defenseless and demoralized. Get Caretakers moving from denial and depression to healthy limit setting and self-care. Challenge their self-defeating behaviors, reduce their anxiety, and teach them assertive behaviors that work with the borderline or narcissist. This training will teach techniques that move these clients forward and increase their self-esteem and confidence.objectives:    Identify how to help clients extricate themselves from emotionally manipulative relationships.    Outline how to move clients from other-focused to self-focused.    Recognize and neutralize the seven dysfunctional rules caretakers use in relationships.    Recognize the causes of caretaker behavior.    Illustrate how to coach clients out of the drama triangle of enmeshment with a borderline or narcissist.    Examine various methods to stop caretaker’s self-sabotage    Outline the steps to neutralizing the emotional caretaker’s obsession with the borderline or narcissist.    Communicate to clients how to use attention and awareness to stop being manipulated.    Discuss the necessary steps to get real change happening in families with a borderline or narcissist.Outline:EMOTIONAL CARETAKERS Who are the Emotional Caretakers?    15% or more of clients in therapy are caretakers    Are caretakers born or raised?    Strengths and vulnerabilities    Symbiotic relationship to the borderline or narcissist Five Types of Distortions Caretakers Use    Emotional    Thought    Behavioral    Sense of Self    Relationships Five Intensity Levels of Caretaking Relationships with the Narcissist or Borderline    Self-defeating    Pathological Altruism    Protesting Colluders    Self-Protectors    Cut OffsThe Drama Triangle of the Caretaker/Narcissist/Borderline Relationship    How and why caretakers get drawn into self-defeating relationships    The persecutor/victim/rescuer connection TREATMENT ISSUES IN WORKING WITH CARETAKERS    Why caretakers can benefit from therapy and narcissists and borderlines typically don’t    Ten ways caretakers self-sabotage    The seven dysfunctional rules caretakers use in relationships    Caretaker issues of exterior locus of control    Passivity, fear, guilt and confusion    How these can sabotage therapy as well as relationships TREATMENT STRATEGIES    Using CBT to confront the core distortions of caretakers    Why client centered therapy is not as effective    Dispute the caretaker’s dysfunctional relationship rules    Move caretakers out of manipulative interactions into assertive interactions    Repairing client’s sense of self    Challenging negative self-image thoughts    Teach the concept of independent SELF    Develop a clear sense of “I”    Develop an inner locus of control    Challenge caretaker’s pathological shame and guilt    Teach empowered communication techniques    Coach clients out of the Drama Triangle into the Caring Triangle    Assertiveness, conscious choice, accepting SELF-responsibility    Use group therapy to move clients forward more quicklyhttps://www.pesi.com/ECommerce/ItemDetails.aspx?ResourceCode…GB page: : As per elib rulesEnjoy