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Dear Lover: A Woman’s Guide to Men, Sex, and Love’s Deepest Bliss by David DeidaEvery woman knows the fairy tale: find the right man, give him what he wants and needs, and he’ll love you forever. But when the myth you’ve been asked to believe fails to deliver—when you sense you’ve been settling for far less than you know in your heart is possible—how do you attract and keep a man capable of meeting what you most passionately yearn for?In Dear Lover, David Deida explores every aspect of the feminine practice of spiritual intimacy, from sexuality and lovemaking to family and career to emotions, trust, and commitment. Written as a collection of letters from a man to his dear lover, here is this internationally acclaimed writer’s invitation to practice love as a living art, as you discover:    Why your man is always your choice—and how to pick the man of deep integrity who will satisfy the needs of your body, heart, and spirit    “Sexual essence” and the three stages of loving:  how to understand your fluctuating capacity to experience divine connection with another    Knowing when to end a relationship and how to deal with the “him-shaped void” your absent man leaves behind    Daily exercises to help you and your partner move from separation to openness in two-bodies devotional trustUltimately, what every woman wants it to give and receive love fully.  Whether you’re partnered or alone, Dear Lover reveals that “your love is the same love that years to open at everybody’s heart.  You will attract and inspire a man as willing and able to open as you are.  Constant yearning is the call to open and give yourself to all as love’s offering.” Contents 1.  You Are Love2 . Chocolate Love3. Yearning Is the Key to Love4. The Gift of Making Love5. Spiritual Sexiness6.  Orgasmic Love7.  Love and Fear8.  Your Sexual Essence9.  Your True Heart and Its Shells10.  Offering or Betraying Your Heart11.  The Two-Bodied Play of Love12.  Loving Larger Than Fear13.  Trusting Your Man to Open You14.  You Attract Your Reciprocal15.  Why Men Hold Back16.  Your Force of Attraction17.  Your Man is Your Choice18.  Expressing Pleasure and Hurt19.  Masculine Insensitivity20.  How to Stay Open21.  Opening Beyond an Impasse22.  Ending Relationships and the Him-Shaped Void23.  Three Stages of Loving24. Love is a Living Art25.   Showing Your Heart’s Light in Public26.  Choosing Abuse and Refusing Love27.  Wanting to Be Opened28.  A Summary of Trusting and Opening29.  Goodbye