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Your Orgasmic Pregnancy: Little Sex Secrets Every Hot Mama Should Know by Danielle Cavallucci and Dr. Yvonne K. Fulbright PhD, 2008ContentsList of Illustrations . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .   ixAcknowledgments . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .       xiIntroductionYikes! The Goddess Is with Child . . . . . . . . . . . . . .       1    I Am Sexy, Hear Me Roar! . . . .   . . . . . . . . . . . . .   2    Finding Your Sensual Grail . . .   . . . . . . . . . . . . .   4    Meet Your Sex Coaches . . . . . .  . . . . . . . . . . . . .   6    Getting the Most from This Book.   . . . . . . . . . . . . .   7Chapter 1 I’m Too Sexy for Myself: Pregnancy and Sex . . . . . . . .         9    This Isn’t Your Mother’s Pregnancy Manual . . . . . .    . . 11    Sex Fears and Myths . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .  . . 13    Precautions That Are Justified . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16    Sexual Health Considerations . . . . . . . . . . . . .   . . 18    The Ride of Your Life . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .  . . 20    Embracing Preggie Jekyll/Ms. Hyde . . . . . . . . . .    . . 22    Sexy Preggie Tricks of the Trade . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 24    Watching the Delivery: How It May Impact Your Sex Life   . . 35Chapter 2 First Trimester Sex: Can’t Get Enough or Can’t Get Any? . . . . . . . . . . . . 38    Sexual Desire During Your First Trimester. . . . . . . . . 40    Blush-Inducing Dreams . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 43    i e Your Orgasmic Pregnancy    Sexual Pleasuring During T1 . . . . . . . . . . .   . . . . .   45    Pregnant Sex Equals Better Sex:    Your Most Amazing Orgasm Ever . . . . . .      . . . . . 46    Meet Your Love Muscle . . . . . . . . . . . . . .   . . . . . 50    PC Muscle Exercises: Identifying the Pelvic Floor.  . . . . . 52Chapter 3 Second Trimester Sex: Prepare to Be Tantalized! . . . . . 58    Physical Changes During T2 . . . . . . . . . . . . . .    . .  60    Your Body as a Playground . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .   . .  64    Titty-F***ing Mama . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .    . .   66    Broaden Your Horizons . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .     . .   67    Full-Body Blahs . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .   . .   69    Sexual Positions to Accommodate Your Growing Belly .      . .   71    Hot Mama Kama Sutra . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .     . .  88    Epicurean Delights . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .  . .   89    Worship Your Preggie, You “Cunning Linguist” . . . .      . .  90    Out-of-the-Ordinary Anal Pleasures . . . . . . . . .      . .  94    Pregnancy Monsters, or Other Factors    That Can Affect Your Game . . . . . . . . . . . .    . .   95Chapter 4 Third Trimester Sex: Improvisation Is Key . . . . . . . . 99    T3 and Your Sex Life . . . . . . . . . . . . .  . . . . . . . 101    Sexual Positions Best Suited for T3 . . . . . . . . . . . . . 107    Love That Lingerie! . . . . . . . . . . . . .   . . . . . . .  111    Fantasy . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 114    Carpe Diem . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .    . . . . . . .  119    Sex Near the Time of Your Due Date May Help     . . . . . . . 120    Not-Quite-Intercourse Options . . . . . . .     . . . . . . . 122    Your Battery-Powered Best Friend . .    . . . . . . . . . . . 124    Give That Preggie a Hand. . . . . . .   . . . . . . . . . . . 126    The Keep-Him-Happy Hand Job . .         . . . . . . . . . . . 128    Anal Play Without Going All the Way .   . . . . . . . . . . . 128Chapter 5 All the Ways to Love Yourself During Pregnancy . . . . . 131    Walk This Way . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .   . . . . . . 133    Just Breathe . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .  . . . . . . 133    Know Your Acupressure Points. . . . . . . . .     . . . . . . 134    Massage Is a Must . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 136    Bath Time (Vibrating Rubber Ducky Optional)       . . . . . . 138    Essential Oils Are Just That. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 139    Preggie Yoga . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .  . . . . . . 139    Easy Exercise . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 141    Sleep Well . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .  . . . . . . 141    Music’s Magical Effects . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 142    Calming Colors . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .    . . . . . . 142    Healthy Eating . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .  . . . . . . 143    Sexy Preggie style. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 145    Invest in a Good Pair of Shoes. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 146    Love the Ever-Growing Skin You’re In . . . . .    . . . . . . 146    Couple Time . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .   . . . . . . 149Chapter 6 Love and War: Baby vs. Partner (or Baby vs. Sex) . . . . . 151    Show Yourselves Some Compassion.      . . . . . . . . . . . . 152    The Importance of Getting Laid . .    . . . . . . . . . . . . 154    I Want My Vagina Back!. . . . . . .   . . . . . . . . . . . . 156    What Happened to My Body? . . . .     . . . . . . . . . . . . 158    The Hot Mama Hiatus . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 159    Getting Back into the Saddle . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 164    What’s Normal? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 167Chapter 7 Postpartum Passion: Maintaining Your Hot Mama Status . . . . . . . . . . . . 169    Breastfeeding and Sexual Response.   . . . . . . . . . . . . 170    Postpartum Birth Control (Yep, You Still Have to Worry) . . . .. .  174    Postpartum Depression. . . . . . .   . . . . . . . . . . . .  176    Three’s Company? . . . . . . . . .   . . . . . . . . . . . .  176    Pencil Me In: Making Sex a Priority. . . . . . . . . . . . .  178    Baby’s Sex Radar . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .  179    Other Hot Mama Postpartum Tips .     . . . . . . . . . . . .  181Chapter 8 Conclusion: Hot Mama Mastery . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 184Appendix: Female External and InternalSexual Anatomy . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 187References . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 189Resources . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 192Index. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 198