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In this episode we sat down with Carlos Xuma (DatingDynamics.com), a dating and relationships coach from San Francisco, and we asked for a bit of his wisdom and mindset that he has in seduction and dating… and boy, oh boy, did we get a handful!Here are some of the main points covered:    * The difference between being the “Alpha Man” and the “Alpha Male”, and which one is more desireable    * “Modern Day” character traits that you MUST cultivate to become a true Alpha Man!    * Why you need to ultimately throw away your training wheels of routines and techniques after you have developed your confidence    * Why most guys tend to only be able to use their skills in loud, busy clubs, and not in the “regular” world    * How do define your personal R.E.A.L. game.    * The Power of “Confronting” – when and how to use it to eliminate virtually ALL anxiety    * How your insecurities can be more powerful than ANY technique or routine out there!    * Why striving to be able to get every girl, every time is COUNTER PRODUCTIVE    * If a girl is not interested in you, does that mean she’s rejecting you? Not at all…    * Real examples of openers from Carlos’ and Tung’s experiences    * How a master thinks about rejection    * Priceless advice for the guys just starting out in the “game”    * The one belief that matters the most, that you’d want to have if just starting out!Listen in here…I believe he talks about some great advice for those who are having trouble just relying on routines