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This is the first CD from the monthly Authentic Man Program Inner Circle Membership. We purchased it along with the AMP DVDs Power of Presence and a few other.Since there is no product description, I post the last AMP newsletter instead. It describes what composure is and what it can be used for:Quote:If you’ve got no Composure, XXX-My-Name, women will take you on a RIDE,my friend.Just like what happened to Mork and his girlfriend here:I was out to dinner with my friends “Mork” and “Mindy,” and althoughthey were trying to be sociable, I could tell Mindy, in particular,wasn’t really engaged – she kept looking around and spacing out.So I called it out, in the moment. “You seem distracted…what’s up?” Sure enough, Mindy acknowledged that she and Mork had been in an argument earlier that night, still unresolved.Now, I can’t suffer through “small talk” when it is clearly on top ofunexpressed emotions, so I invited her to express what was really going on for her.Mindy opened up, expressing that she felt like she couldn’t fully trust Mork, that he wasn’t being there for her – that he wasn’t solid, stable, steady.Now check this out, XXX-My-Name, ’cause here’s the kicker. As Mindy starts expressing herself, Mork leans forward, an increasingly distressed look on his face, and tries to explain and justify himself.  And the more he did this, the more upset she got!He was Collapsing. As he let himself get sucked into her emotional ride he was losing his masculine Presence, which was having her trust him even LESS!Mork needed to re-gain his Composure, badly! Not by posturing and pretending that he wasn’t impacted by what Mindy was saying, but not by trying to justify himself either.He needed to re-center himself before responding any further.So I gently interrupted them, and asked if I could offer him some coaching. (Always ASK permission before you offer someone coaching – unless, of course, you like creating more drama!)I shared with him that I was observing him as off-balance. To have himbe more centered, I suggested he notice the sensations in his back-body. “Imagine that there’s a metal rod, coming down the back of your head, through your spine, and into the ground….”As Mork received the coaching, his posture naturally straightened, hisbreathing deepened, and the pained expression on his face began to soften and relax.  IMMEDIATELY, Mindy breathed a sigh of relief and almost started laughing. “Ah, wow!  What a difference!” she said.  I then had him put his attention on her, while also maintaining hisawareness of his own body, to prevent him from losing his center again. “Please continue,” he said to Mindy.But she didn’t have anything left to say! Her complaint had been neutralized by the change in Mork’s way of being with her. When he regained his center, he became stable and solid, and she was able to relax and trust him again — drama resolved!(At least until the next time Mork loses composure of course!  Thisisn’t a magic pill, it’s an ongoing practice.)It wasn’t Mork’s words that had been upsetting her. It was his collapsed state of being, and when that changed, her feeling of distrust changed with it.So XXX-My-Name, next time you are with a woman who is upset with you, whether you just approached her at the bar or you’ve known her for years, check yourself: Are you Collapsing?  You’ll know you are if she’s getting increasingly upset, and you’re notfeeling comfortable in your own skin.  If this is the case, take amoment to breathe and find your center by noticing the sensations inyour body. This will stabilize and re-center you.Let me know how this goes for you, and send any questions you have about meeting/relating with women to me personally,as******@Au*****************.comBest,Bryan and the AMP teamP.S. Unless you were a member of our Inner Circle membership program, you just missed our first monthly AMP Inner Circle Training CD on EXACTLY this topic, entitled “The Power of Composure” – a full hour devoted to keeping your center when relating with women.  If AMP’s message speaks to you, I highly recommend you join, ASAP. Sign up here:  http://www.AuthenticManProgram.com. When you purchase our 3-DVD set, the Power of Presence, you get 2 months, free. Don’t miss another month!  I pmed the staff to copy the donator whitelist from the authentic man eBook. So all donators will be able to download it, as soon as they do it!Donators: ImmediatlyVIP/Elite: 5 DaysPower User: 10 DaysUser: 21 Days