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Hey guys, This is SteveJabba’s infields and videos. Steve is one of the best naturals in London and frequently described by Gambler as the ‘Best guy he’s ever met’.These are six of his recent videos that he put out. Here’s his bio:—-Steve Jabba – From The Age Of 18I was always interested in picking up girls (arne’t we al! Until about the age of 18 though I was pretty damn ugly : bad skin, gappy teeth, big ears.  Girls didn’t really dig me and my confidence was low, until about the age of 18 when things started to turn around.  I had my gappy teeth filled in, sought advice on clearing my skin, stuff like that.  But I had to wait until 19 until I got laid!Steve Jabba Getting LaidAfter getting laid it was a little like opening the floodgates.  I lived in Essex at this time whilst attending Essex University, and I used to chase different women around week in, week out and I had some successes, sometimes a different girl every week.  I got a bit of a reputation at University and even at this early stage, I discovered that I actually had a natural talent for this stuff that was masked by latent anxiety and depression issues.Steve Jabba – The Desire, The GameThroughout my life I always had an almost evangelical desire to improve myself and mostly this invovled my ability to get women.  I couldn’t put aside my interest and I kept growing and developing, through pure trial and error. ..I developped very solid ability in the real skills of a true Pick Up Artist : escalation , dominace, and taking the girl to bed. I didn’t really talk with other men about my experiences (does anyone?), and didn’t read anything about becoming more attractive to women until 2005, when I found out about the seduction community after reading The Game, by Neil Strauss. Steve Jabba – Approaching GirlsBy this time I did OK with girls (by my current standards) from what I call “warm” approaching – waiting for girls that gave me a come on, usually in a nightclub. However I had never cold approached in my life at that time, and certainly not in the daytime.  Only after alcohol, and only in nightclubs. I think this is the same as most guys.Steve Jabba – Introduction To The LSS CommunityWhen I got more involved in the seduction community (around early 2006) I was initially turned off by 2 things I read from “The Game”. (1) There seemed to be a lot of malajusted people involved in it who were anything but role models with women, and (2) I was turned off by all the fakery, gimmickery and nonsense that was being spouted back then. I found that I was naturally on point, funny and charming when I was in a good mood.  Much more so than the routines that were flying around at that time (Who Lies More, Bad Ass Kid, Strawberry Fields, The Cube etc)Steve Jabba – Learning & SuccessI very quickly got very successful with women after I started cold approaching, as I already had the difficult part (closing) handled very well.  I learned and mastered “cold” approaching. What was left now was an almost perpetual  low level depression and anxiety (which occasionally got worse, depending on my life situation).Steve Jabba – Meeting Richard La RuinaIn late 2006 I met Richard La Ruina (watch his Testimonial of me on this page) and we became friends, travelling around Europe together for 40 days. (I’ve had to trim the photo down as there was another guy who used to hang out with us who is no longer involved in the PUA Industry)During this time he learned a great deal from me about the skills of a natural : escalation, dominance, masculinity, non verbal game, etc.  He had already set up PUA Training, and after our trip he came back to the UK and began growing the company (FAST!). I almost got involved at that time as Richard had the greatest of respect for my pick up abilities, but I chose not to.  The real truth is that at that time, despite the results I was capable of achieving, I still had some self esteem and anxiety issues and I was unconfident about being in the limelight.  (Infact this still persists to this day.  I still don’t want to be in the limelight!)I didn’t know this until years later (early on in 2012) but Richard actually talked about me in all of his books, seminars, videos.   I have always had great respect for what Richard has acheived so it is some endorsement that he rates my pick up abilities this highly.I have an almost evangelical desire to be honest and put my real self out there, and I thought that being involved in the Pick Up Industry would mean putting myself out there and misrepresenting what Pick Up is really all about. My idea was that you have to sell the dream and use over zealous marketing (let’s be honest, lying).  I am incapable of being fake or acting in a way which is counter to my real identity and I have real trouble understanding anyone who would want to do this. With Authentic PUA, I strive to be as accountable as I can be in every way.  I even encourage my potential students to go and ask around about me, in forums, in the pick up circles.  You will find someone who has heard of me.Steve Jabba – Resolves Self Esteem And Depression Through Pick Up!I found that becoming involved with the seduction community was like putting myself under a microscope and honestly evaluating my weaknesses. I resolved to get to the bottom of my anxiety and depression issues and armed with the knowledge I got from being involved in the seduction community, with massive amounts of work on my belief systems,  and with the CBT sessions I made rapid progress. By 2010 I was pretty much in control of it at all times.  Much happier, healthier, higher self esteem and confidence.Steve Jabba – After 8 YearsI never lost my interest in Pick Up and meeting beautiful women, even though I do not do as much crazy stuff as I used to do.  At the age of 37, I can now say that I am at my absolute peak and have consistently improved over the last 8 years.I am still not well known in the sense that i’ve been in the media.  I think of myself as the pick up worlds best kept secret : but in the forums (even on competitor websites!), in the inner circles, with the people that actually live and breathe this stuff I have a reputation as the original natural, the guy who trained the PUAs, the one with “monster” natural game.